由心十法 | Ten Relational Dynamics
关系之学 | The Study of Relationships
由心十法是一个实用的系统,旨在帮助我们理解关系在生活、工作和家庭中是如何被创造、支持、挑战及转化的。A practical system framing how relationships are created, supported, challenged, and transformed in life, work, and home.

The Ten Relational Dynamics | 十大关系动态
生 | Generative
Creation and nurturing potential. | 创造与滋养潜力。
帮 | Supportive
Mutual aid and reinforcement. | 相互帮助与加强。
克 | Control / Restrain
Regulation and healthy boundaries. | 调节与健康的 界限。
泄 | Release / Express
Energy outflow and expenditure. | 能量流出与消耗。
耗 | Consumptive
Gradual reduction of resources. | 资源的逐渐减少。
刑 | Frictional
Incompatibility and hidden stress. | 不兼容与隐藏压力。
冲 | Clashing
Direct confrontation and change. | 直接对抗与变化。
合 | Combine / Join
Unity, partnership, and agreement. | 统一、合作与协议。
破 | Break / Disrupt
Systemic breakdown and separation. | 系统性破坏与分离。
穿 | Penetrate / Undermine
Intense disruption and intrusion. | 剧烈的破坏与侵入。
Foundation | 基础阶段
先确定主体,识别性质、位置与力量,再观察关系如何发生。学习十法的基础定义、方向性与使用边界。 | Identify the subject first, then observe nature, position and strength before examining how relationships operate. Learn the definitions, direction and boundaries of the Ten Dynamics.
Practice | 实践应用
把生、帮、克、泄、耗、刑、冲、合、破、穿应用于八字、六爻、风水与现实案例,区分观察事实与传统解释。 | Apply the Ten Dynamics to BaZi, Liu Yao, Feng Shui and real cases while separating observation from interpretation.
Advanced | 高阶转化
综合主体、性、位、势、十法、取象与时间,形成可以记录、推理和验证的完整判断。 | Integrate subject, nature, position, strength, the Ten Dynamics, interpretation and time into a complete process that can be recorded, reasoned and verified.
Learning Outcomes | 学习成果
- 1. Identify the subject and relevant relationships | 确定主体与相关关系
2. Distinguish nature, position and strength | 区分性质、位置与力量
3. Recognize the Ten Relational Dynamics | 识别生帮克泄耗刑冲合破穿
4. Apply one shared language across BaZi, Liu Yao and Feng Shui | 以共同语言贯通八字、六爻与风水
5. Record reasoning and verify it against reality | 记录推理并回到现实验证
Who is this for? | 适合人群
- Homeowners & Real Estate Investors | 业主与房地产投资者
Couples & Families | 伴侣与家庭
Coaches & Practitioners | 教练与从业者
Managers & Executives | 管理者与高管
Anyone seeking deeper relational understanding | 任何寻求深入了解关系的人
